12 Healthy Reasons to Have Sex Tonight

Candles lit? Check. Barry White on deck? Oh yeah. Dark chocolate-covered strawberries and a glass of wine? Pouring now.  Last…Alexa, dim the lights. We all knows what comes next. But do you know the many health benefits that accompany a vibrant sex life? Hold on to your hat, these facts are mind-blowing. Once you know how intimacy enhances your longterm health, sex becomes even more pleasurable. Let us take you on a tour through the multitude of benefits sex provides for your health: physical, mental, emotional, and psychological.

12 Health Benefits of Sex

Aside from the obvious – reproduction, pleasure, and intimacy – sexual activity elevates your quality of life in a great number of ways. Sex promotes cardiovascular health, sharpens cognitive performance, extends your healthspan, boosts your mood, and beyond. So, what are you waiting for? Here are 12 healthy reason to have sex…tonight!

 

1. Strengthens your immune system

That’s right. People who have more sex get sick less often. Studies show a direct correlation between sexual activity and higher levels of immunoglobulin A – an antibody that fights the common cold and infections. Researchers found that university students who engaged in sexual activity twice per week possessed high levels of immunoglobulin A. By contrast, levels were lowest among couples who had no sex at all. Sexual frequency factors largely in our overall health. So, if you’re not coupling up a couple of times per week, get busy. The more time you spend in the bedroom, the less time you’ll spend in the examining room.

2. Improves mental health

If you’re feeling a little off but can’t quite put your finger on it, try to remember the last time you were intimate. People with lively sex lives report higher self-esteem and general wellbeing. Hooking-up decreases overall psychological stress as it reduces cortisol, the stress hormone, and releases oxytocin, the “cuddle hormone.” Both chemicals benefit out overall mental health. For women, contacting semen during intercourse even acts as an antidepressant. One psychologist recently hypothesized that the post-coital calming effect may be attributed to oxytocin. Orgasms trigger the release of endorphins, which are your body’s feel-good chemicals. So, not only do you want greater sexual frequency – you want to have great sex.

3. Sex boosts brainpower

Having a hard time remembering names or finding your glasses? Might be time for a tumble. Research published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior suggests that frequent sex may improve women’s memory. Sexual activity likely sharpens memory by stimulating new neuron production in the hippocampus – the region of the brain involved in learning and memory. In addition, sex may also enhance cognition. A University of Amsterdam study found that sexual encounters improve our analytical thinking. This boon applies to both men and women. Since fooling around makes you smarter…don’t be a dummy, have more of it.

Whether you’re a man or a woman, make up your mind to make love more often.

 4. Sex works out your body

Yes, sex counts as exercise. Physical activities that get your heart pumping are good for your health, and this includes sex. Depending on how, um actively, you’re going at it, a half hour of sex can burn close to 150 calories. Plus, you’ll make up for a handful of those chocolate-covered strawberries. By the way, the reverse is also true: vigorous exercise also boosts sexual performance. Working out works in your favor. Exercise boosts desire, arousal, satisfaction, and self-confidence. Challenge your love to a race to the bedroom. Last one to bed does the heavy-lifting.

5. Reduces pain

Headaches are often used as a reason to avoid intimacy. But, a cure may be right under your nose. During sex, your body releases serotonin, endorphins, and phenylethylamine. These hormones generate intense feelings of pleasure while at the same time killing pain. This chemical surge is likely the explanation for studies showing that intercourse can stop migraines. Before you reach for the painkillers, try reaching for your bedmate instead. Research suggests that sexual activity may reduce pain from migraine or cluster headaches. Among migraine sufferers, 60% reported a reduction in pain after sexual activity, while 37% of those with a cluster headache saw improvement. I’ve got a headache is no longer a valid excuse, but rather an invitation.

6. Sex deepens relationships

It’s called making love for a reason. Lovemaking plays a fundamental role in preserving happy relationships. Remember the “cuddle hormone”? Oxytocin makes you want to snuggle up to your partner after sex. For women, it helps them bond, trust, and also feel more generous towards their partners. And that “afterglow” we’ve heard so much about? For couples, this positive vibe lasts for up to 48 hours following sexual intercourse. This glow is associated with higher levels of long-term relationship satisfaction. Physical intimacy helps couples reduce stress and feel more secure, leading to more emotionally stable relationships. Turns out that the more love you make, the better you make your partner feel about your pairing.

Sexy couples are more secure, self-confident, and feel more deeply about their partner. So, couple up every chance you get.

7. Helps you sleep better

Does it seem like you’re always chasing a good night’s sleep? Maybe you just need to sleep around. Following an orgasm, and even during sex, the brain releases hormones including norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin. All of these hormones can help you sleep. In women, a rise in estrogen levels during sex enhances their REM cycle, which means more restorative sleep. Men are especially likely to succumb to the sleep-inducing effects of sex because the prefrontal cortex slows significantly in males after orgasm. This happens to be the part of the brain responsible for interpreting and responding to new information. So, if your man falls asleep when you’d rather snuggle, don’t be insulted.

8. Makes you look younger

Tired of going broke on skincare products? Research shows sex is more potent than any anti-aging cream. Couples who have intercourse three or more times weekly appear, on average, ten years younger than their chronological age. Yes, you read that right: ten YEARS. Orgasms trigger the release of estrogen in both men and women, which improves hair and skin quality, making people look more attractive, too. That fabled “morning after” glow? It’s not just your imagination. You really do look amazing after having sex. This glow is the result of a combination of factors: stress relief, better mood, and the flush of blood under your skin that’s a natural part of the arousal process. So, skip the makeup counter and head straight to the bedroom.

9. Sex extends longevity

Sexual activity may hold the key to a longer life. A 25-year study determined that, in men, frequent intercourse was a significant predictor of longevity. Among women, those who reported enjoying sex lived longer. Another recent  study determined that sexual activity may have a protective effect on men’s healthspan. Researchers tracked the mortality of almost 1,000 men aged between 45 and 59 over the course of 10 years. They found that risk of death was 50 percent lower in men who frequently had orgasms than men who did not ejaculate. For women, it’s quality over quantity. High quality sex seems to protect women in later life. Aim for longevity in the bedroom to extend longevity as you age.

Your heart loves sex. Improve your heart health and extend longevity when you show your partner some love.

10. Your heart loves sex

Sexual arousal increases heart rate, with the number of beats per minute peaking during orgasm. Men who have regular sex are 50 percent less likely to develop heart diseaseEvidence suggests that men with better overall health have higher drives and therefore more sex overall, which creates a positive feedback loop that further builds a healthy cardiovascular system. Interestingly, results from most studies suggest that high frequency of sex is correlated with later onset of cardiovascular events for men. For women, better quality of sex is more cardio-protective. Both men and women should follow their hearts when it leads them to the bedroom. Get it pumping. Your heart will love you for it.

 

11. Lowers blood pressure

High blood pressure stresses out your blood vessels, leading to damage and narrow, hardened arteries. These same dangers to your cardiovascular system can also cause erectile dysfunction in men and reduced arousal and inability to orgasm in women. Reseach published in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior found that sex in later years might reduce the risk of high blood pressure – at least for women. In men, studies have shown a link between low testosterone and high blood pressure, while the spikes in testosterone associated with sexual activity might help lower blood pressure. Testosterone stokes sexual desire – for both men and women. If you’re suffering from low libido, bioidentical hormone pellet therapy could be a solution.  Have more sexy time and surprise your cardiologist on your next visit when he checks your vitals.

For those suffering from erectile dysfunction who are looking for a natural solution, you can learn more here.

12. Lowers prostate cancer risk

Research shows that men who frequently ejaculate could be protected against prostate cancer, the most common cancer among men in the United States. Research from the National Cancer Institute in Bethesda, MD, and published in JAMA, discovered that men who ejaculated 21 times per month or more were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer than men who ejaculated between four and seven times per month. Some studies suggest sex “flushes out” any carcinogens in the prostate gland. On the flip side, a recent study showed that very frequent sexual activity in young men (20s and early 30s) could actually increase the risk of developing prostate cancer. But frequent ejaculation in middle-aged or older (50+) men decreased disease risk. For Boomers, this is good news. Keep getting it on like you’ve always done. Not in mood, guys? Get into it and start getting busy.

The takeaway?

Sex is an important part of life and overall well-being. In relationships, orgasms play a significant part in bonding. Physical and emotional benefits like reduced risk of heart disease, improved self-esteem, enhanced mental health and more are correlated with and lively and loving sex life. Not only can lovemaking be a pleasurable and exciting activity, sex may make you live longer.

Cue the Barry White…You just got in the mood.

 

How I’ve Helped Thousands of Men Feel Like Tarzan Again with GAINSWave

If you’re anything like the typical 21st-century American male over 40, I’m guessing you haven’t felt the urge to swing from vine to vine like the “lord of the jungle” recently. When is the last time you dazzled your Jane-equivalent with your stamina and sexual prowess? Been awhile? Know that you’re not alone. Erectile dysfunction affects 18 million men in America. Clinical studies show that performance issues occur in 40% of men at age 40, 50% at 50, and nearly 70% at age 70. Intermittent performance issues are increasingly occurring in younger men, as well. In fact, up to 1 in 4 men under 25 experience sexual dysfunction.

What if I told you that I’ve helped thousands of men just like you feel like Tarzan again? All without pills, pumps, or side effects. It’s called the GAINSWave. If you are among the 52% of men who experience erectile dysfunction, then this treatment may provide a long-term solution. Even for men who consider themselves problem-free – but would still like a boost in the bedroom – the GAINSWave represents a safe and healthy alternative.

Who’s up for an elephant ride? With GAINSWave, you’re ready at all times.

Spontaneity gone?

Satisfying one’s lover is essential to a successful relationship. Part of that satisfaction means being ready when your partner is. Many men miss the sexual spontaneity of younger years. Erectile dysfunction makes performance unpredictable at best. I want you to know you don’t have to suffer in silence as these symptoms chip away at your desire for intimacy. There’s no reason to fear for the potential failure of your relationship. Furthermore, no matter what your age, you should know you can enjoy a healthy and active sex life again, or for the first time.

Have more sex to extend longevity

A vibrant sexuality is critical for your wellbeing and for longevity. The benefits of an active sex life are multifold. For starters, sex improves immune function and sleep quality. Men with healthy sex lives see a 50% reduction in heart attacks. So, embrace your inner Tarzan for a longer, more fulfilling life.

Many men equate a strong and long-lasting erection with their personal sexual health and wellness. Sometimes, however, external forces get in the way: stress, age, and lifestyle factors can interfere with intimacy. Certain medications may also be responsible for ED (even in younger men). Millions of men resort to temporary male enhancements from the drugstore or from healthcare providers. But quick fixes like the “little blue pill” make spontaneity difficult and risk a dangerous side effects.

Bio-hacking your inner Tarzan with GAINSWave

When my male patients first come to see me they are typically defeated. However, most are still hopeful that I can help. Each one of them asks me the same thing: Why is this happening to me? I explain that, as men age, the blood vessels in the penis collapse due to deterioration or plaque blockage. In the same manner that we develop heart disease from the formation of plaques, the penile artery also forms micro-plaques as a result of decreased blood flow. Adequate blood flow is essential for a strong and lasting erection–the greater the volume, the better.

Are there alternatives to the “little blue pill”?

We now have noninvasive technology for the improvement or possible resolution of much male sexual dysfunction. I approach the treatment of sexual health the same way that I treat all of my patients’ concerns. First, from the approach of Functional Medicine. This means I look for the root cause and tailor a treatment to your individual needs. So, first, we will address any physiological or emotional impediments to intimacy. Next, I evaluate your blood work for any vitamin or thyroid deficiencies. Now, thyroid testing is key for a number of reasons. Many men may not be aware that if their thyroid is not functioning properly, they will have low-T, or low testosterone.

If you’re concerned about your testosterone levels, make sure your physician runs a thorough thyroid function panel. This panel must assess your free T3 levels. This number is very important and very misunderstood by most conventional physicians. Your free T3 is your master hormone—it is the key that ignites every cell in your body. So, if you’ve got low testosterone, the first thing I want to look at are your free T3 levels. Once we’ve optimized your thyroid, your testosterone numbers will improve. Optimal testosterone improves sexual health and pleasure. Plus, you’ll feel and look better in your loincloth.

Me Tarzan. You Jane. Have would you like a tour of my treehouse?

A better way to boost your performance with the GAINSWave

I’ve helped literally thousands of men boost their performance using with the GAINSWave.  This noninvasive and pain-free treatment utilizes acoustic sound waves to restore and increase blood flow. The technology has been around for decades, but, has only recently been used to treat erectile dysfunction and enhance male sexual performance. I’ve been using the GAINSWave at my Dallas, Texas, clinic for almost 3 years. I’ll admit, at first I was a little dubious. But the results have proved me wrong. My patients are so thrilled with their outcomes, they are referring their friends for the Tarzan treatment.

How does the GAINSWave work?

The GAINSWave device generates acoustic waves. Acoustic sound waves encourage the growth of new blood vessels. We apply the GAINSWave directly to the penis with the aid of a sliding gel. Its pulsating waves increase blood flow to the penis, allowing a firmer, more resilient erection. This treatment also helps release stem cells and growth factors. Why does this matter? Because you’re rejuvenating the health of the entire pelvic floor.

Your penis stays firmer longer and you experience optimal sensation. Any man who wants to take back his sexuality naturally–and turn his back on erectile dysfunction meds for good–can benefit from the safe and healthy therapy.

Why wait until you have erectile dysfunction when you can it prevent now?

Many ED sufferers are searching for a treatment when a better approach is early prevention. Most men don’t realize that testosterone begins falling at the age of 30. The role of testosterone in achieving erection is key. Testosterone signals to the blood vessels in the penis that it’s time to engorge and engage. In order to perform at your peak sexually, all of the testosterone receptors in the pelvic floor must be saturated.

Passionate cyclists should know that all of that time in the saddle may cause longterm harm. Those precious blood vessels in the penis do not tolerate prolonged or chronic compression. For your overall sexual health and wellness, consider spending less time on the bike and more time in the bedroom.

There are at least 5 components that contribute to maintaining peak sexual performance:

  • Your head must be in the game
  • A functioning thyroid is mission critical
  • Testosterone levels must be optimized
  • Your blood vessels must be in great shape
  • A consistent exercise routine for enhanced libido and performance

Does the GAINSWave work for everyone with erectile dysfunction?

I’ve seen amazing benefits from the GAINSWave in my own patients. As many as 90% report marked improvement and enhanced performance. And, for the up to 23% of men between the ages of 40 and 70 who suffer form Peyronie’s disease, this treatment has proven highly successful. Of course, those with a severe degree of heart disease, diabetes, and advanced age may require more treatments and see milder change. Every man is different and requires individualized care. But, we typically recommend between 6 and 12 treatments and then a touch-up every year following.

Okay, perhaps you won’t have an occasion to swing from vines any time soon. But, with the GAINSWave, you may be tempted to swing from the bedroom chandeliers.

 

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